Where Did Your Shoppers Go? They're Asking AI Now.

# Where Did Your Shoppers Go? They're Asking AI Now.

A shopper who would have discovered your store last year still wants exactly what you sell, yet she never arrives the way she used to. She opens an assistant, describes the thing she needs in a sentence, and reads back the two or three options it has already assembled for her. Your store either made that recommendation or it missed the cut, and nothing in your analytics will register which way it went. No session, no search query, no abandoned cart. The single most decisive moment in her purchase happened entirely on the far side of glass you cannot see through.

Tiffani Bova has given that disappearance a name. Writing in [Dialogue](https://dialoguereview.com/a-light-in-the-dark/), the Futurum strategist states it without hedging: "The marketing funnel is going dark. AI is rewriting the rules of how customers find you." Her sharper observation is that the top of the journey did not actually collapse. "The top of the marketing funnel hasn't disappeared. It's gone dark." Buyers are still moving through it in volume. You have simply lost the ability to watch them do it.

Bova is writing about business software, where a single buyer might evaluate a six-figure platform over several months before anyone signs. Retail got there faster. The clothing purchase that once started with a search and a long scroll now starts with one sentence typed to an assistant. That earliest stretch of demand, the part you historically measured most closely, has quietly become the journey's most heavily mediated phase.

## Two decisions get made about you, and you witness neither

Within that mediated layer, an assistant is continuously reaching conclusions about your store. It surfaces you inside an answer, frames you as a credible candidate, and deposits you on a shortlist whose existence you were never notified of. Or it does the reverse, in the same conversation, for the same shopper. A competitor presented as the safer match, or one stale detail in your listing planted a quiet doubt. Both verdicts are delivered in silence. Bova compresses the stakes into a sentence: "In the Dark Funnel, visibility is binary. Either AI includes you in its synthesized answer, or you don't exist." Elimination arrives without notice, and you never discover you were ever a contender.

This is the retail invisibility problem at its starkest. When [we audited the catalogs of 2,483 leading US Shopify merchants](/blog/shopify-store-invisible-to-ai-agents), the deficiency was rarely the storefront itself, which tended to be polished and persuasive. The gap sat one layer beneath the design, in the raw material an agent could actually parse and reason across, the words and structured fields that travel alongside the product itself. A gorgeous page does no work in the dark if a shopper never reaches it.

## The intermediary is back, and it works for the shopper

Bova reaches for an instructive piece of recent history. You once arranged travel through an agent who knew the carriers and the routes and narrowed the field to a manageable shortlist for you. That human go-between then dissolved into self-service booking sites and a browser crowded with comparison tabs, and for the better part of two decades the traveler stitched the entire trip together alone. Now, in her phrasing, "the intermediary is returning," and this time it is a machine that researches, compares, and recommends on the shopper's behalf, working from preferences and a budget it already holds in memory.

For a merchant, that machine treats your product catalog as its entire briefing document. It never opens your homepage. [Whatever it can credibly say about an item is bounded by what it manages to extract from your listing](/blog/how-ai-describes-your-product), in precisely the structure that listing happens to arrive in. The shortlist gets built there, deep inside the data, long before any person lays eyes on a photograph.

## Brand equity no longer transfers the way it once did

Most executives carry an unexamined assumption into this layer: that hard-won reputation will translate into AI-mediated discovery automatically. It will not. "AI doesn't weigh brand awareness the way humans do," Bova writes, and her conclusion is bracing. "Decades of marketing spend can produce a brand that AI still describes poorly." The system operates exclusively on the material it can locate, and a beloved logo offers it nothing to actually read.

The mechanism is worth understanding precisely. "AI doesn't invent. It assembles." It constructs a composite from whatever fragments lie within reach, a dated piece of positioning, a disgruntled review from years ago, a rival's framing of your category, and presents that improvised portrait to your prospective buyer. A company with a coherent, current, [machine-readable account of itself](/blog/brand-truth-layer-product-feeds-not-enough) supplies the system with genuinely useful raw material, while a fragmented one receives a correspondingly fragmented telling. This is the identical force that lifted discovery off the [results page engineered for human eyes](/blog/seo-built-for-human-eyes), where the response is now composed before a shopper has landed anywhere at all.

## Lighting the funnel back up

The observation window you lost stays closed for good, so the leverage shifts entirely to what the intermediary encounters when it reads you. That means treating the catalog as the room where the decision genuinely happens. Supply the agent with enough accurate substance to include you: what each product actually is, who it suits, the occasions it covers, and where it becomes the wrong recommendation. [The attributes an agent depends on](/blog/what-ai-agents-need-from-your-catalog) are seldom the ones a conventional feed was built to transmit, which is exactly why so many capable merchants read as thin to a machine and never learn that they did.

The consequences accumulate on the far side of that single read. [Shoppers who arrive through an AI recommendation already convert above baseline and spend more per order](/blog/ai-referred-shoppers-are-now-your-best-customers), which wires the listing that wins or loses the agent's shortlist directly to the most valuable demand a store can currently capture. Becoming legible inside the darkness is precisely where the next increment of growth is waiting.

Bova ends her essay with a line worth pinning above a desk. "The buyer journey used to begin with a search. Increasingly, it begins with an answer." That response is being authored at this very moment, by a system that does not yet know you and is already speaking on your behalf. Your customers are still out there in the dark, in undiminished numbers. The only question that genuinely counts is whether the recommendation they hear happens to carry your name.